The relationship you have with OM H do you see it as a healthy relationship?
IF you took away the ONE commonality that you both have...i.e. your H and his W are boinking each other...would you be talking with the OW's H?
I am only curious because the people we associate with, surround ourselves with...usually reflect ourselves.
Now, I feel bad for the guy...I do and if he were here I'd advise the same thing, take a look at what the realtionship with the OM's W does for you. But he isn't posting here...which suggests something to me.
Your realtionship is based in... a painful discovery and in order to prepetuate itself it will require pain...memories or new hurts.
Just food for thought Mila.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
