1. Not to expose at his work or I risk my long term financial stability - he said if I end up in D, I don't want an xH who can't pay child support.
2. That I am able to keep my daughter with me - I just need to offer him access in some fair way.
3. He advised that I shouldn't file anything unless I really want D.
I texted my H about us not coming - he was not happy. Sent me the following text: "Are u still working under the assumption that we are going to be back together at some point?"
Wasn't sure what to make of that so I sent back (an hour later) : "A lot to consider - if u have anything to say to me you can email me. I'm not ready to come home. It's fun here and not hurtful. If u want to see daughter we can arrange - u can fly up or I'll meet u halfway".
Nothing since . . . it's got to be a bad day for him, but such are the consequences of an affair.
