Until you can get more intel than what you have keep looking... This is odd that he would insist all the marital problems are yoru fault etc, but still pursue sex... spouses having affairs usually try to be nice as pie to throw off suspicion or they distance themselves... they don't usually act wayward adn pursue sex... strange...
Isn't it though?!!! That's why I'm so confused and don't know what to do here. I can't get a grip on what's really going on. The blaming me I figured was in part because yes, I do have things I needed to fix. But, also because it's easier to blame me for his life not being what he wants it to be than to point fingers at himself. I don't know whether an OW fits in to this or doesn't.
