Thank you SCH, Libby and GAG

SCH - I agree with that you said....it's very frustrating. And I know that legally they have the right to access to the home....and I'm not denying that. I just want notice....I'm not keeping him out.

Libby - Theoretically H did ring...but he called D and announced that he is on the way, he didn't call me. If I wasn't in the room at the time...I wouldn't know until I opened the door.

Teenage behavior is right. Lately I feel that this is some kind of a power struggle. There is one rule and he doesn't like it so he is going to break it just to challenge the authority...not that I see myself as such...but you get my point...I hope.

GAG - Manic...that's an interesting observation....it does feel like that sometimes. Were you speaking much throughout the "locked-out" manic period? It seems that our communication has really deteriorated for the past almost 2 months...since I stopped his cake-eating....it's like he is challenging me...fighting for control.
Wow that's so good to hear that you are reconnecting with your XH...did you have a good time biking? What is the relationship like, just friendly or do you feel closer then that...just curious.

D canceled seeing her dad yesterday so today he is taking her to her lesson and then to his place for dinner.

Also found out that OW is coming to stay with my H in a week and she will stay for 3 weeks. Her H told me. Once again she is putting this affair ahead of her own children.

And now some nice news...Booked my flight to see my Mom smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO