N8: Black best friend: "Are you serious? Oh, hell no. [edited] this mother [edited]."
Since this is more like my neighbors in my neighborhood, I have to go with her. ditto.
Email and text is the best venue for cowards, is it not?
I also agree with most of the "[censored] your dad says."
Sorry this is going on.
Another thought: I just had lunch with a friend who had a similar situation and D (though not as crazy as mine, but a little) about 7 years ago. She said, "OMG, girl! Your life is just like mine was." And she is fine and happier now. So there's that.
In closing, to quote the "[censored] your grandma says": "WHAT? His mama's never gonna die?"
