embracing change

[flowmom]

Your H sounds like he is so...money focused all the time!!

Yes...that was part of the trigger for the nervous breakdown that preceded the separation. I'm thinking of saying him that I am ready to proceed with the legal separation (which is what I assume he is referring to), but that we need to agree on a vision of how we want to raise our children first. They come first, the comfort of our financial futures comes second.

Without being nasty about it, I want to tell him that I don't give a flying flip about whether he gets to be a homeowner when S6 needs occupational therapy and I want the children to be able to continue to live in their current home where they have lived their whole lives.