Your W will send you mixed signals moving forward. It is up to you to not mind read or over analyze her moves- this is very hard. Try focusing on yourself right and know that this may take months to get through. Once you get in the right frame of mind you will be able to handle the situation much better.
The advice here will most likely be counter productiove to your thinking but please listen, we have been here for awhile.
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All of this started when she recently went back to work, she had one short term EA until the guy went to jail (total loser), but now she's having another possible EA with a different co-worker, she doesn't know that I know about this one.
This happen to me too. If your W was a stay at home mom she felt unappreciated. Now being in the work force again and OM paying her attention, well it makes her feel good. I know first hand.
Try to find out if her R with OM has turned to a PA. You will need to know what you're up against.
Tell us more about: your kids- ages, interaction with W.
Use the board here to post and update your sitch.
Don't argue with her- smile and agree. eg.. W- you never __________. You- I agree, I can't believe I acted that way.
ttys gr8
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