Yet another interesting message from W. She called on her way to work and I missed her call. She left a message that she just talked to the realtor who came out to look at our house to appraise it last week.
She said he told her that one of us should buy the other out because of the market. This is what I had already planned to do. Not sure why she felt she needed to call him if she wants to work on the M.
This must be another TEST!!!!
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA
Yet another interesting message from W. She called on her way to work and I missed her call. She left a message that she just talked to the realtor who came out to look at our house to appraise it last week.
She said he told her that one of us should buy the other out because of the market. This is what I had already planned to do. Not sure why she felt she needed to call him if she wants to work on the M.
This must be another TEST!!!!
Just tell her later, "I haven't decided if I want to stay here or not."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Yet another interesting message from W. She called on her way to work and I missed her call. She left a message that she just talked to the realtor who came out to look at our house to appraise it last week.
She said he told her that one of us should buy the other out because of the market. This is what I had already planned to do. Not sure why she felt she needed to call him if she wants to work on the M.
This must be another TEST!!!!
Just tell her later, "I haven't decided if I want to stay here or not."
I definately want to purchase the house. Now it's just a numbers game. Along with getting the good rate. I've got all my paperwork in with the mortgage folks and I'm ready to go.
I would just hate to purchase the home and move her out and we try to reconcile later. I have a lot of money on the line by doing this. I guess with risk comes rewards........
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA
I definately want to purchase the house. Now it's just a numbers game. Along with getting the good rate. I've got all my paperwork in with the mortgage folks and I'm ready to go.
I would just hate to purchase the home and move her out and we try to reconcile later. I have a lot of money on the line by doing this. I guess with risk comes rewards........
Complicated. Lots to consider. All the more reason to use Coach's line!!!
Yet another interesting message from W. She called on her way to work and I missed her call. She left a message that she just talked to the realtor who came out to look at our house to appraise it last week.
She said he told her that one of us should buy the other out because of the market. This is what I had already planned to do. Not sure why she felt she needed to call him if she wants to work on the M.
This must be another TEST!!!!
Probably right. A Test. You haven't gushed over her overtures since last night so now she may feel a need to know if you are 'done' with her. This question about the house could be a way to get at that info.
Be cool.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
I just got home from seeing my T, she mentioned that my W isn't showing any desperation to save the marriage. She also said why hasn't she offered to stop speaking with OM???
I know there are several opinions out there but my T made me feel like my W is playing me right now. She has started to see the ramifications of D and her having to move out and losing her home. I know it's early in the game and my W has mentioned working on things.
I guess time will tell.
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA
