XH and I bought a car that was cross county (it's getting ridiculously hard to find manual transmissions in the US - pretty soon I'm gonna have to start shopping in Europe LOL). From Maryland to California was a lil over $800.
If you can find a friend to do it, buy a one way ticket from El Paso to NY and give them gas money. LOL
Either way, if you really want rid of it, just let it go.
The other option is just to stop making payments and let it be repossessed yes?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Michelle that is exactly what I told him I was going to do. I don't want nor have the money to expend $800, especially since one of my new kitties had to go right to the vet, and that cost me about 350. I am going on a cruise, and the last step is buying the plane tickets, so hello...
All of this has been a real eye opener for me. I mean, I knew that the SG didn't give a damn, but I think it has finally sunk in. Today I am not angry, not hateful, I just feel a little sad that my family and me got dragged into this. I suppose I still wonder how someone can tell you they love you, marry you, and then say you convinced them to do it. I have realized that I will never truly have an answer to that question; some people just don't care. SG is one of them. He was really good at faking it though.
I am at peace with the decision. I don't want the car, nor do I need it. I don't want anything that will tie me to him anymore. I am very ready to put this nightmare behind me. Yesterday was par for the course, I knew it had to be done but also knew he would become extremely defensive, and try to blame everything on me. But it didn't make it any easier to deal with.
Now that it is done, it is something I do not want to repeat ever again. There is no point in me having any kind of contact with him at all if it is going to hurt that bad. I have just had enough.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I suppose I still wonder how someone can tell you they love you, marry you, and then say you convinced them to do it. I have realized that I will never truly have an answer to that question; some people just don't care. SG is one of them. He was really good at faking it though.
H either believes it or is saying it to lash out and hurt you. Either way, not your problem. The unanswered questions sure do linger and can eat away at you, if you let them (which I admit I still do at times!).
Originally Posted By: LolaL
I don't want anything that will tie me to him anymore.
I hear you. Memories will always be there, though they will fade. But why have physical, tangible reminders? Anything X owned but didn't take is boxed and stored in the basement. Anything she owned but didn't want and almost everything she has ever given me has been donated or tossed.
Originally Posted By: LolaL
Now that it is done, it is something I do not want to repeat ever again. There is no point in me having any kind of contact with him at all if it is going to hurt that bad. I have just had enough.
Amen.
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Okay so I am sitting at my desk, and all of a sudden there is this shaking, and my computer monitor is quivering.
Turns out Rochester has just had an earthquake...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
