I will let Alan take this one, as he is an absolute EXPERT on it. I felt the EXACT same way, but everything Alan said was dead on.

Your H is waaaay ticked that he just lost his little fun and games. Affairs are all about passion, and intrigue, and the grass always being greener.

Now, he has a ton of crap to deal with, and that is spoiling his little fun.

RIDE IT OUT and keep your emotions IN CHECK.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed