You said the right thing to your brother, indeed. He shouldn't, however, regret not having met her years ago. Who knows how she would've turned out? Even now, she may be all "I understand you", "so sorry for your troubles" and down the road become a different person. I question her morals in trying to get a married man into bed. He's not even separated. Everyone is on their best behaviour in the beginning, which is why I believe in long engagements (which still isn't a sure bet, but you do get some time to get to know one another a tad better).


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim