I feel like i need to contact WAW

[knightinneed]

Detaching is progressing occasional thoughts here and there well especially last night. But I blocked her facebook page and OM2's facebook page. Felt good to do that honestly, because I choose not to be " drawn out of hiding " as she calls it and to do anything detrimental.

Now OM1's W called me this morning with updates on the situation and has some really disgusting stuff to share with me, it just rolled right off my back.


She said that WAW was basically using her husband to get a house for them, because she is going to need a residence for when she goes to court for the baby. Luckily OM1 and his wife are on the road to recovery. She also advised the boss is closer to kicking my WAW out. Which is good.


WAW has had OM2 around my daughter, and OM1's Woman said that he was playing with the baby. Also I learned that WAW tried to sell a car that was borrowed from her friend, and well it broke down, so karma once again bit her right on the butt.

She also claimed something quite sadistic which I hope is not true. WAW takes care of a paraplegic as part of her job, well this guy likes WAW alot as a caregiver. Apparently, OM1's W said she heard through WAW's boss from one of the co-workers that this guy has a toy that he uses on himself and the nurses help him get access to it.

She said that WAW may have used her own hand. YUCK I dunno if it true or not, but it just reeks of insanity, now the kicker to all this gossip is that this paraplegic guy gets like 10K month. And well WAW may have asked for the paraplegic guy to move in with him and OM. Once again all hearsay but it doesnt suprise me.

I told OM1's W i dont really care about any of that, but just facts about DD1's care and or if WAW is doing anything that can be proven. I started to think, well ya know I have enough evidence already with previous court appearances ect.. That there is really no point in talking to her anymore. SHe did advise she will testify for me though as she Hates WAW and what she is doing to disrupt her H's family.

Im doing real well as far as GAL been hanging out with friends and reconnecting with some older ones, excercising daily and I am only 15 to go to get to my goal weight which is great as I am getting alot more attention.

DD1 is doing well and enjoyed a nice birthday party last Saturday with her cousins.

Now I do have a few questions yet again. I was reading some sitches over at infidelity, and well I am a bit confused as to alot of advice given there.

I know ALLEN A and Puppy advise a very hardcore stance on affairs.


And well since my sitch is now a full blown affair where she is advertising it on FB well last I checked, and OM1 W confirmed it as well and mentioned him by name and he has been at my WAW court appointed visitation. Her Boss supposedly was not to happy about it, as she is still married and bringing OM2 with her was classless.


I am wondering if some of the approaches he has advised would be applicable. Now due to no-contact that does not mean I would approach WAW or her boss or anything, but there are mutual friends at a bar where OM2 works, and also I am wondering if I could use Allen A's approach of a restraining order against this creep, because I do not want him around my precious daughter trying to play dad.

I would like to know some thoughts on detachment vs. Agressive attachment for the sake of my DD1???

Please advise DB people!!!!