TWolf: The kids haven't been going with him. He asked a couple of times if they wanted to go but they didn't. It wasn't like he really wanted them to go and was disappointed they didn't... it was more like he was just making the offer since they were asking him where he was going. Does that make sense?
I have been very good about his need to get fit. I started cooking healthier and we went and got me a Wii Fit that I've been doing. I've been losing weight as well but just not as near a fast rate as he has. I've asked him to do the Wii fit with me but he's not interested. Not that I'm discounting what you're saying... I can see the importance. I just am so confused at when to give him space and when to try to get involved. When he's home, he basically goes into the home office and plays XBox most of the time other than when he goes running. He occasionally will make an effort to watch something on tv with me...but mostly, just stays to himself. We've done things as a family, but nothing just him and I. I have not brought up any R talk at all and am not feeling like I should right now.
