Again, be prepared for incrementalism (which WON'T work), and some pullback from her position of last night. The alcoholic usually swears that "I will drink less," long before they hit bottom and give it up altogether.
Puppy
Another very likely thing would be for her to actually say NOTHING, about ANYTHING that she said last nite, and just ACT NICER to you, temperature-checking you to see if "FFH is on board with all of this, or have I lost him?"
This is why a guy's night out would be a good idea, as a not-so-subtle reminder (by your ACTIONS, not your WORDS) that "Hey, babe, the ball is still in YOUR court, I'm not stupid."
