Originally Posted By: kissak
I keep seeing more and more of my old H everyday. Just a "better old" husband than before.

Leaving for our first family vacation next week...well first one together in 4 years. Im really looking forward to it!!!


Funny, how we want the good parts of our "old spouses" back but hope that somehow the bad parts or the parts we don't care for are not present anymore.

I find myself saying the same thing in my sitch "I see my old wife again" but I stop and think to myself, I don't want to go back to the old marriage. Hopefully, both of you have gone through enough pain and heartache and growth so as to avoid the same mistakes as before.

Sounds like you guys are on the right track. Have a great vacation.


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

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