Help - How to Know When There is OP?

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Ive been learning from the best Allen and PDT.

So he has been taking the kids and you have said in your past post that that is the only real time that he has to text or call some one out side of work.


Ok her is what i would do grab the other kid or kids and go walking at your pace.

Then maybey your husband will join in as a family and you can all walk together.

Her is some thing that happened to a couple freinds of the family.
Husbant was 50 wife 48, He started going to the gym working out allways asking wife to join him in his quest to get fit she would say no.
He drobped 50 lbs and started feeling better about himself he looked great and wife never really said much or did anything to go with him and be part of his quest to get fit.

He talked about this to me and my dad that he just wanted her to be part of the new him.

Next thing you know he bought a fancy new sports car was spending more time away from home And he had an affair.

He talked to us again and he said the reason he liked the other women she would go do things that he enjoyed doing, The hiking ,jogging etc gym.

This affair started at the gym because he met her and they started working out together.

A goal i would set for you is start going on walks with your family.If one person changes the other has to so they say.

With husband getting the kids out maybey he wants you to come to and be part of the new him?? I.M.H.O