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How do I get any respect or ANYTHING for that matter from her if I let her just keep calling all the shots and I roll over and take it without saying anything or standing up for myself ??!?!?


What specific actions have you taken to stand up for yourself? What boundaries have you clearly communicated and enforced? What steps have you taken to protect yourself legally and financially? What have you done to seperate your finances?

What is the real reason you got upset about the trashbags?

You should have already had her things packed when she crossed the boundary (living with another man).

Your wife is running as fast as she can and you keep doing the same things. Why?


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.