Mel, its your choice but many here tried the softball approach and the affair dragged on for YEARS... it may work, but you will get very ill and very miserable in the process.. particularly if you can't hanlde rejection well... whcih I don't...
This is an addiction Mel, but the db coaches will NOT teach you that... they can ONLY endorse softball because they can only support the MWD approach for you.... WE LIVE this each day and WE can reccomend ANY approach
