Got a couple of questions for you...you know just as a guy. AND I am not attacking you, these are serious questions. If any of them seem like they might be true...just be honest with yourself.
Your husband seems pretty darn active which ...might mean physically fit. Are you? Or...better yet WERE you and not anymore?
Did you fall into the trap of being a mom first? Where you're too tired from being a mom to be a wife?
Did you 4 year old become the center of your universe?
You mentioned that after the birth of your son that he started to become distant.
Those are some pretty common reasons a guy feels left out and then gets all passive aggresive and resentful.
Look he might be in an MLc...but you have to realize that YOU also played a part in the crumbling of your marriage. But...you are going to have to figure out what that was.
The idea around here is to outlast their MLC.
AND while not every MLCer has an affair...it is in your best interest to at least prepare yourself for the possibility of it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
