How are you gonna handle yourself if one of your kids ends up on drugs or drinking heavily? Are you gonna worry about how angry they get at you when you lock the liquor cabinet?
No, but I will have to find a way to keep them from going out to a store and buying it, or from calling friends and having them bring it to them.
I get she is addicted. This guy made her feel really, really good. She is seeking any and every way possible to get ANY sort of emotional feeling from this guy, even if it is just calling his voicemail.
She is living in a fantasy land right now with her friends feeding into it telling her to "follow her heart". And the more she does that and gets no response, the more desperate she becomes. And then the more powerful the emotions are when she TRIES to contact him. She must feel like she is fighting for his heart, and her being so stubborn, gets some sort of emotional high from that.
I get that she is addicted. What I am saying is that it seems to be more powerful than I originally thought. And it is going to take some real work to keep this going the way it is: nowhere.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed