Why's he trying to get on your computers? To install spyware? Maybe I'm just suspicious...
I suspected such back in Jan, forget why.... So I got a new computer and gave my old one to DD16. Her's was a clunker and over 5 years old anyway. I really think H is concerned that the "someone" who fed OW info and "caused a lot of probs" might have hacked in. It was possible that someone was on our network but I figured out how to secure that up...i think...don't really care anymore.
What kind of problems? Like calling her a flea-bitten, home-wrecking, heartless ho? How awful!
Originally Posted By: WhatNow
These situations are strange. H rants about his mother's behavior, yet he behaves JUST LIKE HER! He is doing to our kids what she did to him (emotionally abusive/neglectful)....
Alas, we repeat what we learn growing up, from how to make chili to which way to hang the toilet paper to how treat our friends and family. It takes a strong, STRONG person to go against their upbringing. MLC's are NOT strong.
Originally Posted By: WhatNow
Spent most of yesterday at the neurologist w/ DS13. (In Jan his Left foot mysteriously stopped working) It was just a follow-up. After the nerve testing and the MRI's,no cause was found but movement returned about 3 weeks ago. Still doesn't have full range of motion yet, and may never get it all back. He tripped over it playing baseball and broke his arm in 2 places. The cast came off today and he is in a brace now. Yippee! Getting him to shower in a garbage bag was a fight! Now He can Swim!!! (It is about all there is to do here in the desert summers!)
I hate to say this WhatNow because I'm not a doctor - and I may be COMPLETELY wrong, I often am - but your husband leaving in December and your son's foot mysteriously stop working a few weeks later sounds almost psychosomatic, like your guy is physically manifesting his stress over WH behavior in this way. The timing + no physical reason for it = well, lots of questions.
[My sweet, agreeable, easy-going DS 7 suddenly started talking back and using foul language about three weeks after WH moved to basement. I was shocked. I even got a phone call from his teacher, wondering what in the world had happened to our sterling little 1st Grader. DS 7 and I talked and he told me he was sad because "Daddy moved to the basement, doesn't wear his 'marry' ring or kiss you anymore, and I'm afraid you're gonna get a divorce!" Poor guy! I nearly started bawling myself. I reassured him as best I could that Daddy and I were just taking a "time out" from each other for awhile and we'd fix it as best we could. He went back to being his sweet little self after that.]
That's why that popped into my mind - and again I may be WAY off base, but it's a thought.
I'm glad some of your son's mobility has returned. Yeah! But broken limbs, casts, and garbage bags? Oh my! Too much excitement, lol!
