I want to be clear that affection will not be "pursued" or "pursuing". If she is "looking" or "asking", then I will assist. I appreciate your experience here because I really need it. And, like conversation, I will decide when we're done. I'll cut them short.
Does it make sense that completely detaching from her physically would only support her current view of me? I hope you see where my view is from.
If I'm wrong, please let me know. If there is an alternative, I'd like to hear it.
