I just want my WAW to see I've "woken up " I want to fight for our relationship and our family, etc.
So you show her by fighting about trash bags?!?!
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I know yesterday was ridiculously tough for me to keep a nuetral face on when she was packing and moving stuff out and instigating me over the stupidest of things, such as the fact that she got pissy cause I wouldnt let her deplete my stock of trashbags so SHE could pack. " Hey WAW, Im sorry but I need them myself, had you simply asked me the night before I might have been able to get you some or something " She flipped out even about that !
Uneeded drama.
Your wife can't trust you.
She needs a strong man one who thinks, takes action and leads. Not one who does things based on his feelings. You feed the drama in your situation, you seem to like it, you gossip with your neighbor, you want to be right about everything, you think you know what she is thinking, and your talk is full of extreme adjectives and absolutes.
Once you stop the drama your wifes mood will stabilise. Is what you are doing working? Do you have any men you are talking to about your situation?
Start thinking, make some goals then execute the plan.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
