Re-Connecting

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So I'm going to send this email to her. Please let me know if this is the conversation i should be having.


Email sending to W:
I don’t feel safe in this marriage while you have this relationship with your manager. If we are going to truly work on this marriage all contact needs to stop between you two. I’d prefer that you transfer to a different team so there are no reasons to communicate with him. If I’m asking too much then please let me know and I’ll have my answer, but this is what I need to continue anything.

I’m taking the steps to work on my issues and my mismanaged emotions. I’d like to know what your intentions are to salvage this marriage.

Wait on this. It says the right things, but you are rushing into the space. You are putting your position out there without really hearing from her exactly WHAT she means by the text she sent last night and what it means to her. So, sit on your hands for just a bit today.

Also, I think the things you state in your email need to be said to her. She needs the weight of your voice, your posture, your eye contact, your confidence to clearly understand that you are not kidding - you mean what you say.

Have you heard from her today? You will. Wait for it.
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