So what is the course of action then? I mean if she gets NO response from him doesn't that make her feel worse about the whole thing. Won't she eventually give up?

She is hanging onto hope that when the D is final she will be able to run down to him. Or she hopes that he will eventually contact her back so they can start something while the D is in process.

But if I stay on top of things and make sure she gets no contact back, won't the hope fade away and reality set in?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed