So I'm going to send this email to her. Please let me know if this is the conversation i should be having.
Email sending to W: I don’t feel safe in this marriage while you have this relationship with your manager. If we are going to truly work on this marriage all contact needs to stop between you two. I’d prefer that you transfer to a different team so there are no reasons to communicate with him. If I’m asking too much then please let me know and I’ll have my answer, but this is what I need to continue anything.
I’m taking the steps to work on my issues and my mismanaged emotions. I’d like to know what your intentions are to salvage this marriage.
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA