Greek, you asked "Have you moved out? Please say no.", but I see that you and coach were separated for 3 months. Did that give you the space and time to "find yourself"? Did the separation help you? Only 3 months. I wish it were that easy. Do I need to leave for a while to give her "space"?
Dan,
In my experience, "I need space" almost ALWAYS means "I want space in which to conduct my affair, unencumbered." Very, VERY few, rare individuals (less than 5%?) really use the time and space to remain detached from BOTH their spouse, and their OM/OW, and do honest introspection.
