I hear what you're saying. I want to walk away and not think twice, but it's pretty difficult.
I'm still confused by this entire decision. We have a M worth saving and that can be saved, but she throws in the towel. We get along great.
She told me that she may think differently down the road, and she knows it will possibly be too late because i will have moved on.
It's completely sad that she just doesn't get it. My D4 asked me last night if i was sleeping at the house, when I told her no she said she doesn't like it when i leave. made me sad as hell.
Remember though, she's doing what's best for the kids. Whatever, it's 100% all about her in this situation. My D15 doesn't even like being around her because of what she's doing.
Anyway, i guess it all doesn't really matter anymore. I know that I made great changes and putt full effort into it. i was unable to give her the time and space she needed, and that's why this failed.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept