I checked the phone records from last night while I was out, and she called the Facebook guy. It was only a short call, probably just to leave a message. HOWEVER, she still seems to be really hung up on this guy.

I also checked her text messages, and she texted one of her girl friends right after the call "my heart is pounding, I left a message, when should I call again".

How long does the hangup with the OM usually last? It's been 2 weeks since shes had any contact FROM him, yet she continues to message him, text him, and call him.

I think she is seriously infatuated with this guy, and thinks he is going to be boyfriend material and someone she wants a relationship with during the divorce.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed