Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

I think I may have mis-spoken... I was relieved because I really don't want to take any steps backwards. I really value all of your opinions and I don't want to let my emotions take over and say the wrong thing.

So a lot happened lastnight. I went to bed and thats when the texting started from my W. She apologized for the emails during the day and said she doesn't want a D. She said she will goto MC, anything to save the M. I kept my answers very short and told her that I have a lot to think about and I couldn't give her any answers right now.

She brought up the OM and said it's not what I think. He has been nothing but a friend to her (still won't admit EA). I told her that her actions speak louder then words right now.

I wanted to know how to address this. Is this where I lay out my "wants". Tell her no contact with OM, etc......

I'm also worried that she is doing this for all the wrong reasons. I think she finally realized how tough it will be out there. Not to mention I'm about a month away from buying our home and moving her out.

HELP!!!