Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[Piano]

I lied! I told H i brought the papers to family court since he wouldnt pick them up. He kept saying if that is your priority... you should be worrying about your son, not a D.

This really gets my nickers in a knot! Yeah, if only he hadn't walked out on you while you were pregnant you could do just that! F*** that's screwed up! and pretty much exactly what my WH said for months. It's called stalling for time and not rocking the boat you while you are still pregnant.

I feel a lot of hope for your sitch BD, but think you best prepare yourself for the worst. My WH got rather more possessive about the child - and cared a lot less about me - post birth. i.e. once the baby is out, it's a whole new ballgame.

Sorry to sound so dark, BD. Just been there...