MLCer or addicted infidel?

[WhatNow]

Thanks for the vote of confidence M&H.


I didn't go with the kids on Fathers Day. Step kids asked where I was. Apparently they don't know their Dad is in the Ho-tel. They do know about OW but wouldn't talk to their younger sibs about it. I don't think H missed me, got plenty of attention.

Why's he trying to get on your computers? To install spyware? Maybe I'm just suspicious...

I suspected such back in Jan, forget why.... So I got a new computer and gave my old one to DD16. Her's was a clunker and over 5 years old anyway. I really think H is concerned that the "someone" who fed OW info and "caused a lot of probs" might have hacked in. It was possible that someone was on our network but I figured out how to secure that up...i think...don't really care anymore.

The following year, he showed up without calling. He also had his nephew drive him the 4 hours and drop him off in our driveway and leave immediately so we couldn't tell FIL to go home. It was pathetic. It was also the last time he forced a Father's Day on WH. After abadoning his family in the late 70's, he was still feeling the sting 15 years later...

That is really pitiful.

These situations are strange. H rants about his mother's behavior, yet he behaves JUST LIKE HER! He is doing to our kids what she did to him (emotionally abusive/neglectful)....I am watching for the times I act like my mother (the stuff I don't like anyway!)


Busy stuff...
Spent most of yesterday at the neurologist w/ DS13. (In Jan his Left foot mysteriously stopped working) It was just a follow-up. After the nerve testing and the MRI's,no cause was found but movement returned about 3 weeks ago. Still doesn't have full range of motion yet, and may never get it all back. He tripped over it playing baseball and broke his arm in 2 places. The cast came off today and he is in a brace now. Yippee! Getting him to shower in a garbage bag was a fight! Now He can Swim!!! (It is about all there is to do here in the desert summers!)