Re your grief work FWIW:

A great book that I am using is "Rebuilding when your relationship ends" Bruce Fisher

Issues we have are broken down into 19 building blocks. Each one is discussed and you are to determine if you have issues with it or not. Helpful 'assignments' are given, things to think about. The blocks start with denial, fear, guilt, etc and work up to openess, love, trust, etc. I guess I am finding it a good way to examine my marriage, change what didn't work for me, what held me back, what I want in future, and so on....




"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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