How's things?
Well, I've dated a woman a couple times, then she had some drama involving her brother (long story, but in the end he is in some kind of rehab facility, and I think the drama is over).

Our first date had been rescheduled once, and she nearly did again, as she had had a rough day... instead she figured she would beg off after an hour. We met at a nice bar in a resort type hotel at 6, and we left at about 11. I guess her watch broke! The bar was a big room, had sofas, we were sitting on one of those. We decided that it must have been two dates, as neither of us would have kissed on the first date. In the parking lot afterwards I hit a spot on her neck that made her jump, and say something about that being a 12th date spot.

So, we met again a few days later, and managed to eat in only three hours! Saying goodbye in the parking lot she said something about a 6th date kiss.

Here's the puzzling part....
She says (at least on the first date) that she wants to date more than one person because she doesn't want to rush into anything. Which actually makes a lot of sense. But her actions... well, they didn't match up so well with those words!

She also said that she doesn't want to rush into having sex (I said it was at least 4 dates, even though we only met twice...) because once you do that you stop talking, because you are too busy! But then she nearly attacked me in the parking lot.

Small (?) red flag... she's never been married. She's had her own company for years, and it was usually her priority. She was engaged at least once, and has had other boyfriends as well. So, is it a problem? I dunno.

Going for honest here, sex scares that heck out of me. My plan is to be really clear if that comes up. It's way to early for me to commit to something for the long haul. Whatever that means!

In other news, the drama hit a week ago Saturday, we were supposed to go golfing early that morning. When she cancelled, S20 said he'd go. Since then he's gone to the driving range three times, and we golfed together both Saturday and Sunday!

I will have the kids next week, I am thinking of surprising them by going to California and going rafting.