I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

BD I don't get why that would make your H sad! It gives him an "out" kind of...like go ahead and do your thing. We'll be together in the end!

Well I just finished working out and watched 2/3 of Julie and Julia. It's funny bc it's the 3rd time I've seen it yet I have a different perspective now.

Of course it inspires me to cook! (for who again?) but now I am looking at Julia Child as inspiration for marrying a terrific man later in life who adores her and supports her. And she started her career later as well! And she wasn't afraid of looking foolish or making mistakes either.

And Julie looks so self centered to me, who took her loving and devoted husband for granted. Of course he "walks away" for a bit because of it and they reunite in the end. But I see how she discounts his opinions and puts herself first.

Also on Memorial Day weekend I watched "When Harry met Sally" (one of my all time favorites...used to be) and found it to be so obnoxious! I guess what bugged me was how uncomplicated their lives were. Sure they met and married each other after divorce and being friends first...ideal. BUt no kids. lol! I am jaded right now!

ok off to shower and watch The Daily Show... a fun way to catch up on the news!