Just print up the articles about divorce and children, leave them in your home so next time she's there she will see you are reading...
Have some of your buddies visit your cousins' OM and tell him to back off and not answer texts from WS etc... OM needs to know there is a bunch of guys who will put him in the ground if he does ANYTHING to damage this marriage .. INCLUDING spreading rumours.. Tell this guy to BACK OFF and DROP IT.. no rumours no talking ... ZERO
Have a nice "friendly" chat with him about keeping his mouth shut and staying away from marriages...
And yes your wife wants to write when she's pissed.. save them all you can use them in court...
Your cousin needs to tell his wife this :
ALL CONTACT is NOW UP ON THE TABLE... NO SECRETS in this HOUSE BETWEEN US.. ZERO SECRETS... If OM is spreading roumours she shoudl be telling her HUSBAND so he can PROTECT HER.. not texting him in secret .. AGAIN
TELL YOUR COUSIN TO MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS>>> NO MORE SECRETS... whatever she is dealing with they deal wiht it as a COUPLE.. she's not james bond... tell her to stop the secrets... PERIOD
Tell him to put his cell phone on the table in front of her and to tell her she can open it any time to read it.. and she should be donig the same...
all the truth on the table... no secrets...
Serets are marriage cancer... repeat that.. secrets are marriage CANCER
