Stuck and don't know how to proceed

[twolf]

stop the contacting back and forth for starters.

go dark or dim.

Know that you are not trying to get rid of him you just want him back. Its been TWO YEARS

Make him feel the loss of what life would be with out you.



Once you go dark for a while like a month i bet he will give you a hug like you want. You need to learn to DETACH.

You have to make him work at it your both like a couple of drug addics feeding each others addictions.

One of you has to get clean and i dont think he is on these board!