Would like advice here! I have not been answering fiance's calls when he immediately calls me about random things like he found this of mine or that or we need to talk about bills, ect. kind of calling immediately after the day prior he will be not so nice and tell me not to call, it's always on his terms. I just don't know how to handle the calls because most of the time it ends up being not a ligament reason for him to call (not life or death or extreme deadline type needed communication). So do I ignore the calls and talk to him at a later day???
For example (today)he called my cell and house phone to talk about a bill, I not purposely did not get the 3 prior calls. When I didn't return his call within an hour he text "I was only calling cause I had a question about a bill. No matter sorry to disturb you I will figure it out." I replied " sorry just saw my phone cant talk at this moment everything alright? call u in a sec?" He replies "its what ev" "no rush" I reply "then may I call you when I get home" He replies "ok ok I said when ev" i didn't reply
Question how do I handle this??? What is total in the dark? When is it suggested to use this? I want to talk take the opportunity to sound optimistic promising and positive but I don't know how to approach such calls when i wonder if and why he is REALLY calling. Please help Thank you all!
situation: separated for 2.5 months together 7 years/engaged 5 me:25 him:29
