You need to let him go into his emptyness and rediscover that he wants and needs you.

I.M.H.O this is the only way your going to get him back.

Let him text you dont answer his texts wait a day or two and dont be their for him. Keep it light like "sorry ive been busey i will try to get back to you later ive been busy.

Then just keep it at that!

Dont take his phone calls.

Make him stand on his own two feet for a while.

Make him be the one to think you dont know what you got till its gone.

Do YOU want a freind or do you want a marrige where you have everything?


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10