Stuck and don't know how to proceed

[twolf]

YOU NEED TO START TO ACT LIKE YOU ARE MOVING ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

You have said what happens when you do detach he comes running.

Then you fall back into your old patterens when he does show intrest in you again.

You need to gather all of YOUR STRNGTH and act like you are moving on.

At least till he gives up the O/W and makes a 100% comitment to your marrige. I.M.H.O

Did he try calling or texting you today?

Did you try calling or texting him?