Sorry; it's just that I've seen it many times on these forums. The risk of STDs -- and worse -- is very real.
Puppy
It's a very good - and valid - point. I have spent so much time worrying about the emotions of all this and how hurt I am that I hadn't even considered the medical risks. I guess it's too late at this point as to what's happened thus far. Now I need to consider actions going forward.