I really hate saying this but my ex will take the slightest weakness I show him and use it to his advantage. I believe in a situation like yours, you have no choice but to hit him hard with consequences. You have a right to feel safe and a right not to be abused. His behavior is totally out of line.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11