Hi BA-

Thanks for posting - you're absolutely right. I need to go to court tomorrow. Now is not the time to roll over and play dead.

I read your most thread - are you and W in the actual process of divorce?

Don't mean to pry, just curious. Like you and your W, my H and I can still have a good time together and that's making it really hard for me to detach.

BTW, we live in Michigan but one of our very best vacations was the one time we visited DC together. Summer 2005. What a great place to be with someone you love! Sorry if that's sad, but reading your thread reminded me of that incredible vacation...