Stuck in Limboland

[CT Yank]

Smy,

Thanks for responding.. I wish you all the best in your sitch. It is funny how we are all different but yet the WAS all seem the same. Have read DR {about 6 times LOL}. been lurking these boards for awhile. Some very useful advise.

I am 3 months post bomb and W's anger has subsided a bit. We can at least talk like normal for a bit, but then the venom usualy starts up again. I am getting good at just walking away
and not adding to it because I learned you just cant reason with a WAW.

Just got back from tonights IC session. Not helping much with my M but its great for my own well being. My T is great she always tells me I'm doing whats best for my family and that gives me the confidence to keep trying. Not sure what W's Ic does for her but I dont think she is very pro marriage. She seems to want to promote her "inner happiness"

I have done a ton of work on myself over the past 3 months to be a better dad and husband. I know I needed to do it too,the bomb was a much needed wake up call. Not to say all the blame was on me. I thought that at first like everyone else, but at least I owned up to my side of the problems. My S18 told me last night that he was proud of me for sticking this out this long.
So at least I know the kids see my changes, now only if the W would too.