Ravenly was one example of someone whose H took off 100% and she ended up being relieved because her current significant other has ended up adopting her baby. (who is now 4 years old!) And she gets him 100% time. Such a weird thing- on one hand, if the H stays in the baby's life as a father, great that the baby gets to know him but BAD for having to jump houses and we don't get them full time. If the H takes off, bad for the baby in not knowing their birth dad and bad for us in having to raise the baby alone until we meet someone but good for giving the baby a chance at an intact family and loving stepdad.
Last edited by newmama; 06/23/1001:45 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
