Have you read any threads in the MLC forum? It might be a good idea to spend some time reading there. Sounds as if he could be in MLC.
He is bored and he's trying to feel "something" by engaging in these on line A's. He blames all his unhappines on you and thinks if he could have one of those OW his life would be better.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!