Is your husband going through deppresion or having trouble at work.
Men love to be subdusied by their wifes have you tryed that?
Could the text he sent to this Possibble O/W been a fake text to get you to be more into you persuing him.
As a mind game?
He could be depressed - no work problems. He's done the classics: lost weight (started jogging) and wanted new clothes - talking about needing a different life for himself. I figured it was MLC since he's 40 now.
I really don't think that would be a fake text! That would be awfully bold considering how he knows how I am about these things! Interesting thought though.
As for the seduction - I understand that. BUT...are we not supposed to be detached and uninterested? Isn't that pursuing which we don't want to do to be DBing??? That's what is so confusing!
