Is your husband going through deppresion or having trouble at work.
Men love to be subdusied by their wifes have you tryed that?
Could the text he sent to this Possibble O/W been a fake text to get you to be more into you persuing him.
As a mind game?
Me 37 Waw 32 son2 bomb 8/11/09 O/M 12/25/09 Divorce filed 8/25/09 divorce finale 6/16/10 Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10 Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10