Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

My draft response (emotionally charged warning):

"You @$#! FFFFF you %#$!$- go to @#$#"

Since wii stopped coming over as much someone's got to keep things light around here...

OK seriously:


The academic portion of the cost at priv school (PrS) is $960/mo - with the after school cost the total becomes $1030. So you are asking me to pay the $70/mo for the after school cost? and that's all that's standing between her going to PrS vs. PB school?

Then yes, if you will pay for the tuition at least until the end of 5th grade I will pay the $70/mo for the afterschool cost- but it needs to be in an un-modifyable court settlement.

So here are the options are:

1. PrS: I pay $70/mo you pay the rest, this is not modifiable until the end of 5th grade
2. PB school near me: You don't want her to go there
3. PB school near you: Doesn't work for me
4. second PB school near me: I'm open to this pending visit and final decision on my part

In return I expect the alimony and child support payments be renegotiated and lowered by 1/2 effective immediately and permanently.

Or as you said we can let the courts decide...just a word of advice here- careful what you wish for.