My name is not on the car. It is solely in his name. I can't register it here because he has not given me the paperwork. In order to get the paperwork, I will have to hound him, and I don't want do continue to have contact with him. Also, there is nothing in the divorce decree that says he cannot take it from me, just that he is supposed to sign it over to me when the payments are done. Therefore, if he wanted to take it he could, and in light of recent developments, I don't trust him at all.

So I sent an email stating that, in a business like mature matter, and that is where it all started. I told him that I did not want to be responsible for his debt. I am not exactly sure how it led to the fact that he had an affair, and that he ended up marrying her, and that I was having another relationship, blah blah blah, but it did. I think it was that he threw at me that of course everything was my fault, I got us into debt (that was his ex wife), I guilted him into marrying me (he forgot that I did ask him several times if he was sure he was ready), and that he swore that he did not have an affair.

I know this is toxic. I got into the car and just started bawling all over again. This is why I want him to take the car, because this is just one more link that I don't need. I told him it was because I was going to cut all ties with him, and this was a tie, therefore he could take it.

It is wrapped into the bankruptcy. I dont mind paying my half, but not this car. Not his house. Not anymore.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..